12 February 2001 @ 01:10 am
::snicker:: All these posts from people still in the "infatuation" phase of love amuse me. They warm my heart too, though.

I guess I would put myself in the second stage -- the stage where your loved one becomes a part of your life you expect to be there and rely on, rather than something new to be marveled over and engulfed by.

This isn't a bad thing, of course, and neither is the infatuation-love. I do long for that kind of moment, at times, but it isn't as if I never have them either. It's the difference between looking at someone, and moving forward with them by your side.

And I'm happy.
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[identity profile] jerri.livejournal.com on February 11th, 2001 10:09 pm (UTC)
I know what you mean. In fact we were just discussing the second stage. I call it the "comfort stage" - things are just really *right*, you know?
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[identity profile] dragonoflife.livejournal.com on February 11th, 2001 10:19 pm (UTC)
No... things really AREN'T "just right." Maybe because this relationship is so long-distance or whatever... We still have fights and stuff. But we're an item, for what it's worth. We're together, in heart and soul. That's what's so good about it... the sense of permanency. The sense of belonging. The knowledge that every day when I get up, there will be someone out there whose love is unquestionable and unconditional.
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[identity profile] mauracelt.livejournal.com on February 11th, 2001 10:47 pm (UTC)
You are wonderfully blessed, I wish I had someone to argue with and get pissy about. I am just so envious of you and the other friends I have that do have someone there, no matter how far away they are ... *hugs*
Hope your Val's day is sweet and full with all the nice things.
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[identity profile] jerri.livejournal.com on February 12th, 2001 03:20 pm (UTC)
Man, that long distance stuff really bites. I'm glad that part of my relationship is over. Hang in there :-)
::hugs::
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[identity profile] isis.livejournal.com on February 11th, 2001 11:20 pm (UTC)
I do hope you're not refering to my post.

Truly, I hope you're not.
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[identity profile] dragonoflife.livejournal.com on February 12th, 2001 06:10 am (UTC)
Any particular reason why not?
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