19 June 2009 @ 11:19 am
So remember how I mentioned my WoW guild's former GM, who out of nowhere decided to quite the guild and the game? Remember how I mentioned she'd transferred the guild leadership to another person in it, then took all her characters out of the guild abruptly?

Turns out she's not quitting. Instead, she's starting a new guild, because we've ruined hers and it's no longer a place she can be happy and she hates us all. She felt obligated to send the new GM a private message saying pretty much exactly all of that. Oh yeah, and she's taking her stuff. (Literally. She took the guild banner because it was "the last remnant of the guild she liked.")

Our current GM and I have two different theories on this. Our current GM believe that our ex-GM was expecting us to flounder and flail and mourn her going, and be completely ineffective for a while. Instead, when we basically said, "Good luck, have fun!" (in all sincerity, mind), then pulled together and put the guild into a *better* position than it had been, she got pissed.

My theory is something similar: She never intended to leave the game. She only claimed she was going to, and left the guild, because the rest of us stopped providing something (raiding, amusement value, goods and services, whatever) that she'd been using us for up till that point. She dumped the guild expecting us to fail -- and is pissed because we didn't.

Either way, it's the sort of revelation that just never sits well in a person's brain -- namely, that someone I had a reasonable amount of trust in and thought was a decent person has now demonstrated her actual self and feelings. It's a betrayal no matter how you slice it, and a pretty cold one at that. Frankly, it pisses me right the hell off. And it sure as hell only serves to confirm my bitter, angry cynicism.
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[identity profile] cyfis.livejournal.com on June 19th, 2009 06:05 pm (UTC)
I'm not sure where you're getting "she wants you to fail" from "she is starting a new guild".

Drama queens on WoW expect guilds to be their personal support group and flounce off when they're not getting that. It happens all the time?
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[identity profile] dragonoflife.livejournal.com on June 19th, 2009 06:14 pm (UTC)
If she didn't want us to fail without her, why would she be mad that we were succeeding without her? ^.^

And usually you can tell a drama queen. This all came out of sudden left field. I'm more mad at myself for being suckered all this time.

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[identity profile] elf-fu.livejournal.com on June 19th, 2009 08:36 pm (UTC)
As a woman who has been in the potion of running a guild, a large group of people, and other such Fun Things--I can say for certain that I am not surprised by her behavior.

She wasn't getting enough attention and pandering, and did what we like to call a Flounce.

When no one shed a tear, she got pissed and started her own guild to hopefully suck the fun and life out of several other poor peons brains.

It seemed to come out of left field for you, but I am betting someone, some where, has all the /tells or /whispers and PM's where she's been discussing this move over several weeks behind the scenes.

Also: I'd draw ya'll a new banner if I had any talent what-so-ever in that area.
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[identity profile] elf-fu.livejournal.com on June 19th, 2009 08:37 pm (UTC)
Potion? Position.* Wow, needs moar coffee.
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[identity profile] dragonoflife.livejournal.com on June 19th, 2009 11:06 pm (UTC)
You describe my theory exactly.
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